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Men and Women Are Different? Wrong!

One thing I want you to totally get out ofhave been together, the less they truly know
your mind right now is the idea that at thethe  other  person.
deep psychological level that there are any
absolutes about "what women want" or "whatAnd I'll add this incredible fact to the mix.
men  want."In the vast majority of relationships, The
longer two people have been together, the
I tell you, I've seen absolutely everymore stubborn they are about insisting that
variation on this old saw in the so calledtheir hallucinations about their partner are
"literature" of my field, in the popularabsolute  truth.
literature, in television, movies, magazines,
workshops, and I'm totally unconvinced thatImagine this. If you were to launch a rocket
at the deepest, most fundamental levels thatship at the moon, if it didn't have a capable
you can make ANY conclusions about "whatcomputer that was making constant little
women want and need" or "what men want andcorrections, and it were just one tenth of
need" in  relationships.one degree off in its aim, it would end up
thousands  of  miles  off  target.
Such divisions will do nothing but support
your defenses and keep you from everTo use another, much more common image, think
discovering the depth of a Greatabout driving your car on the highway.
Relationship.Imagine that you are on an extremely straight
highway (say, I-70 through Kansas). Could
Let me put this in front of you right now.you just aim the car and strap a rope to the
Stop  making  conclusions!steering wheel and go take a nap in the back
seat? Of course not. Even on an extremely
Just stop making conclusions! Your mind isstraight road, you have to constantly be
full of nonsense about men and women,making little adjustments, right? (And NO
relationships, marriage, divorce, gay andrelationships are "straight roads" as you
straight, sex in general. Just give it upknow -- they are just chock full of bumps and
and make yourself like a brand new baby whoswerves  and  ups  and  downs!).
doesn't know a thing, and then, like a baby,
discover all the ways to get the "right"And you have to be pretty relaxed to drive
information --that is, the information thatwell and keep open to those constant
comes from the reality of dealing directlyadjustments, not resisting them or insisting
and  without  filters  with  your  loved one.that you are right when you are going off the
road! Yet that's exactly what happens in
Without  foregone  conclusions!most relationships. People make up their
minds and just strap down their "steering
Just stop making conclusions that justwheel" -- their thoughts, feelings,
because you have lived with someone or beenimagination and ideas about themselves, their
married to them for ten, twenty, thirty,partners and marriages -- and seem not to
forty or even fifty years, that you knowcare  if  they  run  off  the  road.
ANYTHING  about  them.
The amazing thing is that the majority of
I can't tell you how many times I've sat inpeople are totally dedicated to being right
my therapy room with my jaw on the floor fromfar above their desire to have a great
hearing the conclusions that one person hasrelationship.
just drawn about their partner and who that
person is, when it is abundantly clear, justYou have to be ready and willing to be wrong,
from what that person just NOW said andwrong, wrong. Most people are happy to trash
expressed that the other person is simplytheir entire life just to keep their fool
hallucinating and that they aren't talkingheads focused on the position that they are
about  their  partner  AT  ALL!right,  right,  right.
I don't care how long you have been together.This kind of stubbornness will destroy
The likelihood is that unless you have maderelationships. You'll never be ready for a
a regular, ongoing, open-minded attemptgreat relationship unless you are ready to be
without cease and with real courage andwrong,  wrong,  wrong!
intensity to keep yourself open to the
changes and development of the person you areThat is, unless you are ready to have a truly
with,  you  don't  know  that  person at all.open mind, and recognize that all of the
conclusions you have about your partner over
As a matter of fact, let me make that eventhe time you've been together could be sheer
stronger. I think that in the vast majorityhallucinations!
of relationships that the longer two people



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