| I used to ask myself this question because quite often | | | | they? |
| it seemed like they just weren't interested in physical | | | | For a woman she has to be more selective than a |
| relationships at all. | | | | man. Why? Because she is the one who could end up |
| So why does it not seem like this? Have you ever | | | | with an unplanned child for 18 years after 9 months of |
| been confounded by it all? | | | | pregnancy. So she can't just choose 'anyone'. |
| You go out and you see a lot of sexy ladies yet they | | | | She is looking for the best possible characteristics that |
| end up rejecting most guys while dressing up so well | | | | a man can represent and bring to her. Good looks is |
| to attract them in the first place. It would seem at first | | | | just one of those. |
| glance that ironically they're not even interested in sex | | | | And because she is more selective and the internal |
| at all. | | | | reproducer, it will usually take her more time for her |
| I mean isn't it about the greatest irony of all?! | | | | mind and body to warm up to the idea of sex (as |
| Well, in actuality, women love sex at least as much as | | | | compared to men). Men want to shoot the bottle |
| men do. But there are differences that DO exist that | | | | rocket off but remember that ; |
| determine how things are played out on both sides. | | | | The fact that women have to love sex (or there |
| You've probably heard it many times in different | | | | wouldn't be continued life) is naturally sound. Her biology |
| analogies, men are like bottle rockets and women are | | | | ensures that she will respond and when she reaches a |
| like a growing fire from an ember. | | | | certain point of escalation, will take the seed of a man. |
| Men are more visual. It doesn't take much to get them | | | | The experience for her is (by default) more of a full |
| turned on. We see a sexy woman and we're | | | | mind/body experience than it is for men. And the |
| generally interested immediately. We don't have to find | | | | higher in natural character strength the man is, the |
| out about her personality, etc. | | | | greater the experience for her and the more likely it |
| Women are different. Sure there are some times | | | | will happen in the first place. |
| when they're turned on by the stereotypical | | | | So if the mating process is biologically sound, then |
| Chippendale's dancer but to them, it's more about the | | | | what has gotten in the way? Social influence. Basically |
| total package or experience. It's about how they feel | | | | many men have had their natural character |
| around a man and the characteristics he represents. | | | | (fearlessness, personal authority..) repressed. However, |
| And because men are the external reproducers, they | | | | women have changed even more. |
| biologically want to 'sow their seed' (and hope for a | | | | They are now more 'logical' and developed in |
| crop failure like my father says). They want to sow it | | | | personality or 'inner character' as well as 'social |
| ideally with the most desired and beautiful women. | | | | character' of social status and popularity. |
| Both men and women want to procreate or mate with | | | | The dynamics have changed so it's up to you to fully |
| the best possible specimen they can. For a woman | | | | understand them if you want to have consistent |
| this means finding ideally an 'alpha male'. A man who | | | | success with women and dating. It's because of these |
| can provide and protect who has good social status | | | | dynamics that millions of men aren't acting like men |
| and means. | | | | anymore. |
| By choosing a strong mate, this will give their offspring | | | | I can teach you to apply relational dynamics for pure |
| the best chance of favor, strength and survival in the | | | | physiological change and effect. Consider it advanced |
| future. | | | | dating technique. |
| Looking at modern day with the advent of birth control, | | | | Women love sex and once you understand the real |
| humans are about the only beings that can experience | | | | natural, inner and social games that are going on, you'll |
| sex for pleasure. And now it can be done with birth | | | | be able to connect with women to lead them where |
| control (even abortion) without a woman having to fully | | | | they want to go physically. |
| worry about the long-term consequences. So she can | | | | You can let your natural character be the conduit, |
| take part in the pleasures that ensure the propagation | | | | leading forward the natural, intuitive and responsive |
| of life. | | | | character in her and you'll get what you want with a |
| Ok, so if they're dressing up so much and looking so | | | | little patience. |
| sexy to attract alpha male's to them, then why do | | | | It's more about giving than getting, anyways. |
| they often reject men who are close to it? Or are | | | | |