| The other day I was at the local gym in
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| | Some of you will be better at this than
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| the midst of one of my all too-infrequent
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| | others, what can I say? Gradually try to
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| workouts when I spied one of those A+
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| | do this with every girl that looks worthy
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| little foxes that make you forget how
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| | of your attention and slowly build up a
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| much weight you just dialed into the
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| | catalog of astute observations in your
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| machine. I reflected on how the gym
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| | mind that go along with each one.
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| represents a kind of "so-near-yet-so-far"
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| | Then... when you finally DO get a chance
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| deal when it comes to meeting women
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| | to trade a few words with one of these
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| because while they may be right there
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| | cuties, rather than stumble and bumble
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| prancing around covered in sexy sweat,
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| | around trying to say something amazing
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| the environment never really seems
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| | you'll have something cool and impressive
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| appropriate for meeting and flirting
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| | already locked-and-loaded into your
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| around as it does in a nightclub. People
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| | skull: "I saw your floor set the other
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| are in a different frame of mind at the
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| | day and I was amazed by your ab routine.
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| gym and often broadcast a variety of
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| | You show off the results amazingly
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| non-verbal "stay away" signals that only
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| | well..." you casually flirt with her,
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| the boldest dare challenge.
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| | "...any chance that you could take me
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| However, after a little experimentation
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| | through side-by-side and show me how it's
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| and some intense pondering I think I may
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| | done? I've hit the wall on my old
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| have identified a few nuggets hiding
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| | routine, I need a change-up." And so
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| amidst this apparent wasteland, such as:
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| | there you've served up a nice little
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| 1) If they are locked-up in their own
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| | personalized compliment that's relevant
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| little i-pod universe, they are most
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| | to the situation AND to her -- and is
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| likely out of reach as far as a DIRECT
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| | immediately working to spark her up with
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| approach is concerned. I-pods and
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| | some genuine admiration. Plus, your
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| portable radios are by far the biggest
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| | remark makes sense to her in this
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| obstacle to socializing in the gym. How
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| | particular situation -- it's not just
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| do you break through to these chicks who
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| | some canned line.
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| are encapsulated in their own little
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| | This is how the High Status Male makes
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| world of sound and obviously trying to
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| | his powerful first impression!
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| lock the rest of us out? You can try
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| | Now you've made a friend that you can
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| saying something clever to them, and if
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| | engage on a first name basis (you
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| they see your lips moving will usually
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| | remembered to get her name, right?)
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| tear the headset off and ask "what?", but
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| | whenever you see her around the gym in
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| their annoyance at having to do so is
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| | the future. And if the vibes (eye
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| apparent and this immediate negative
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| | contact, smiles, her laughing at your
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| posture is not easy to overcome.
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| | dumb jokes, etc.) look good, then at some
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| About the only non-intrusive thing you
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| | point it's perfectly reasonable to step
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| CAN do is make solid eye contact wherever
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| | up and escalate for a get together
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| possible and quickly shoot them a
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| | outside of the gym... right?
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| friendly smile, without actually saying
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| | This is sensible, appropriate, measured
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| anything (since she can't hear anyway).
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| | and steadily escalating aggression.
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| If you get a good return look from her
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| | Non-aggressive males get nowhere with
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| then you may have a play, but I usually
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| | women. Remember that.
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| store these up and wait to act on a
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| | 3) Spinning is often the best thing going
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| similar positive read next time, not
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| | at the gym because it's the closest thing
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| immediately. Again, I think patience is
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| | there is to a nightclub-like
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| needed here because women seem easily put
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| | environment... the lights are down and
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| off by intrusions into their mental
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| | the dance music is thumping away. The
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| workout zone -- so you have to sort of
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| | high-cardio spinning pumps up the same
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| wear these barriers down first in order
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| | adrenaline and other juicy-juices in the
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| to set them up for a possible move later
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| | body that dancing does -- and you know
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| on.
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| | how crazy women are when it comes to
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| If you can pull a favorable eye contact
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| | dancing!
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| reaction like this on future encounters,
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| | Of course, spinning classes and aerobics
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| then a bit of stop-and-chat might be in
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| | present the same type of problems that
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| order and will certainly seem less
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| | clubs do in that the noise and
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| offensive since the girl's given you some
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| | "action-distraction" levels make it hard
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| cause to open a convo with her. Women
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| | to connect with anyone on anything other
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| know precisely how to use eye contact to
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| | than a wholly superficial level. But you
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| either chill-out or lure men towards
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| | may have a chance to talk with her during
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| them, so learn how to follow their
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| | the warm-ups or cool down after the class
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| signals. While this laid-back sort of
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| | ends. Have you got that custom
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| "ticking" action might be a little too
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| | compliment all ready to go?
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| flim-flam for some of the more impatient
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| | 4) It's going to take repeated tries to
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| among you, if you're looking to protect
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| | break through. Because people are not
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| your ego and operate "without
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| | really in "the mood" in this environment
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| embarrassment" as much as possible then
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| | it's tough to create a real buzz on a
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| watching for these subtle signals is the
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| | first meet. It may take a few encounters
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| best way to improve your chances of not
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| | to get her thinking about you in a
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| getting blown off in public.
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| | romantic sense, if at all -- and so you
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| 2) Have one loaded in the chamber and
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| | have to play it cool. Pay her attention
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| ready to go at all times. Your chances
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| | when it's appropriate to do so, but never
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| with women at the gym will almost always
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| | slavishly. Certainly a fine line has to
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| seem to arrive out of the blue... a
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| | be walked here. Remember that the EYES
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| random encounter at a water cooler or
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| | tell the whole story when it comes to
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| while waiting to get on a particular
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| | women... when your instincts tell you
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| machine, etc. So if you're serious about
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| | that you have an interested female
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| doing this stuff then you need to have
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| | nibbling on your line, then that's the
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| something along the line of a Custom
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| | time when you must surrender reason to
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| Compliment all figured out in advance and
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| | those instincts and take action.
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| ready to use as an icebreaker for each
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| | This stuff is not rocket science, it's
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| and every woman that you might possibly
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| | really all about specific awareness plus
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| have any interest in. That's right, each
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| | some motivation.
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| one... so keep your radar antenna always
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| | Let's face it, gyms will probably never
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| out and start paying attention!
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| | be the ideal environment for meeting
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| For instance, if you observe a chick who
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| | women, but these simple ideas may give
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| warms up with an elaborate floor routine
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| | you a better chance to make a play in a
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| that's focused on her abs, then make note
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| | poor situation now and then. The way to
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| of it. Watch the routine closely and
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| | view this entire deal is to welcome
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| spot something unique like a certain move
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| | whatever opportunities you can stir up in
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| she does or the extreme number of reps or
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| | the gym as an ADJUNCT to your other
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| whatever AND REMEMBER THAT. Link it up
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| | social activities -- not as your saving
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| with something specific about that girl
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| | grace or the one place where you're
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| (give her some private, cutesy name like
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| | exclusively hanging out to meet women.
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| "ab-work Annie" in your own head) to form
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| | Because there are far easier ways and
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| a mental association, and then file this
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| | means to get an edge, as we'll discuss in
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| scrap of info away into your memory bank.
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| | future articles.
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